Carla has a very long day. I asked her to write about ‘Remaking Love’ and ‘Revising It’…I won’t ask her to write a lot more.
I want to share with you two simple stories about Carla and her expansive love for all of humanity.
Here is the first, in Carla’s own words:
This morning I filled up the car with gasoline. A man came looking through the trash cans by the pumps. He was hungry–I’ve seen this behavior countless times from the street people when I was in Berkeley going to college.
Back then I didn’t have the means to help, but I always smiled and said I’m sorry.
Today, even though there wasn’t a whole lot in my wallet, I took twenty dollars, and handed it to him, all folded up, so he would be surprised.
He went into the convenience store right away. It was chilly, only in the fifties, at six fifteen a.m.
I can’t help him forever, but for today, he had food to eat because of my decision to give. I said a prayer for him to find food for tomorrow, and the next day, and the days that follow, too.
Here is the second:
Someone close to Carla had actions that gave Carla much distress of the heart. It was a betrayal, and Carla quietly decided to wash her hands of this person. She would be ‘pleasant and polite’–which is the galactic expectation to treat everyone. But her heart space that once was open, was ‘permanently shut’.
Soon after, weeks later–not months–this person was having a change of heart.
Carla opened hers again to this person.
Just as effortlessly as she did with the first person, to open her wallet.
She saw opportunity for Right Action, and took it.
That is her nature, her soul, her part that is most connected to me.
For I am all about Forgiveness, and about expecting the best in everyone.
In this I am most happy with the growth and development of my Twin.
How will we advance together in the future, if we do not agree to help and make allowances for growing pains that show up in those in our midst, those closest to us, our Star Family?
That is all I have to say for today. Along with the fact I am learning MY lessons, through Carla, in our relationship. This morning I asked her, what do you want from me?
She said a kiss.
I held her, and I kissed her tenderly.
While I kissed her, I felt her energies, and telepathically, we communicate.
I learned two important points–the affectionate contact helps Carla ‘remember’ the love that flows between us. I, disincarnate, always know and experience it where I am. But Carla needs a little ‘help’ as she goes about through her day, and for her, kisses and hugs and affection is important to help her maintain her energy UP.
I also learned, Carla enjoys the interplay of her Divine Feminine energies with my Divine Masculine, something she doesn’t get to experience in the same way, outside of our relationship. Carla totally relaxes, and enjoys my strength, as I hold her and give her soft kisses that are playful and loving from my heart.
Carla isn’t weak.
But Carla is highly feminine, as you can see by her bracelet–all in pink–and from her outside dress and makeup and professional demeanor, one would never for a minute guess how feminine in her heart she really IS!
So that works for us, the two of us, in our relationship together.
Everyone has their way.
Always look to the one who is closest to your heart to be your best teacher and friend to show you your lessons you need to learn most.
Those in your inner circle are always ‘hand picked’.
Carla spent twenty minutes on the phone with her mom yesterday. She had it on speaker phone, so Anthony could talk too.
Anthony couldn’t believe it she spoke so long!
Nikki in fear upon fear, had cancelled her cataract surgery. Thank you all for the prayers and healing you sent. Carla’s mom lives in an ocean of fear. This time it was about the lack of control over the timing of the surgery, and her diabetes, and not being able to eat.
Carla spent the time to open up the relationship again, and to loving support her earthly mom.
Carla gently explained to Anthony there was a time she spoke like this to her mother every night; they are Italian, it was expected of her. But as her training got more demanding of her time, the calls went to every other night. And once a single mom? Well, she couldn’t relax and enjoy talking on the phone. (Carla doesn’t really enjoy being on the telephone, to be honest, but as a loving daughter, she does this sacrifice for her mom, whom the phone is ‘important’ means of communication for her.)
So always make love a priority–in all of your relationships–it doesn’t have to be sexual to be loving.
There are so many kinds and ways of creating loving feelings with each other.
Open your hearts, and Spirit will take care of the rest.
Every single day you are incarnate.
Aloha and Mahalos,
Ross and Carla